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Our tune: Celebrities pick their 'special' songs
Friday, April 25, 2008
After Sir Paul McCartney revealed he and first wife Linda had a soft spot
for Procul Harem's romantic anthem, A Whiter Shade of Pale, we asked three
local couples for their fave songs. By Kerry McKittrick
Journalist Emma Louise Johnston has worked for the BBC, ITN and GMTV. She
married businessnan Jonathon Crawford six months ago and they live in
Belfast. She says:
Johnny and I sort of came together in spite of music. He's very much into
Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin and swing music.
My taste is very eclectic - I'm into anything.
I could be dancing round the living room on a Friday night with mates to
Hendrix one minute and then the next to something punk.
Jonathon and I actually met at a Fat Boy Slim concert in Kelly's in Portrush
- he was playing Right Here, Right Now at the time.
I can remember really getting into music around the time of my GCSEs.
I had pretended to like U2 to impress my brother - and I do like them - but
at the beginning of that summer I started listening to The Smiths and
Morrissey.
I'd also just become friends with this girl who, like me, really liked the
song The Boy With The Thorn In His Side.
She had this massive ghetto blaster and we sat up at Belfast Castle in the
blazing sun.
I just remember that summer was when it all started, and I really started to
discover music.
The first concert I went to was Nirvana.
Also on the bill were The Breeders and Teenage Fanclub.
As I left the house my brother scoffed at me for wearing new DM boots and a
T-shirt of the band that I was going to see.
I had been so excited but he took the wind out of my sails as I went for the
bus.
Picking the first song for our wedding was a nightmare.
I wanted Joy Division's Love Will Tear Us Apart, but I didn't think it would
look very good with lots of wedding guests pogo-ing on the dance floor.
In the end we chose It Had to Be You, by Harry Connick jnr.
The song at the end of the night was the one that we remember more. It was
Dakota by the Stereophonics and all of our friends were up jumping around to
it at the end of a great night.
If I had to pick a song that epitomises me and Jonathon, then it would be
the cover of Depeche Mode's I Just Can't Get Enough by Nouvelle Vague.
It's loud, fun, has many different layers and is a bit of a calamity. Just
like us."
Radio Ulster presenter Ralph McLean is married to fellow RU host Kerry.
They have two children, Tara (2) and baby Daniel, three months. He says:
Kerry and I first met way back in the mists of time in the very building we
now work in — the BBC's HQ at Belfast's Ormeau Avenue.
Kerry was working in the newsroom and I was working with John Bennett on BBC
Radio Ulster.
We were friends but it wasn't until Kerry came back from a stint presenting
with the BBC World Service in Africa that we got together.
We just clicked and it was like we'd always been together.
We married in 2006 and now we've got two lovely kids, Tara and Daniel.
We've always loved the same things, shared the same sense of humour and,
very importantly, taste in music.
Music's always on in our house. The kids love it as much as we do!
The first song at our wedding was Glen Campbell's Wichita Lineman.
The line 'And I need you more than want you and I want you for all time' is
one of the most romantic lines ever written and means a lot to both of us.
Jackson by Johnny Cash and June Carter is another song that we both love.
The lyrics are right on the button. People think The Man In Black is pretty
dark but he was also great craic, and I think this is funny and really
upbeat at the same time.
If we ever had to do a duet at a karaoke night I'd love to do this. It's a
song we can sing to each other as well and have a laugh which is important!
I seem to remember listening to Ryan Adams When The Stars Turn Blue and
Gillian Welch's beautiful Elvis Presley Blues when we first started going
out so those songs still make me think of that time.
The birth of our daughter Tara changed our lives forever — I'd never
experienced anything like it. I was an emotional wreck that day and when I
left the maternity ward that night the very first song I heard when I turned
on the car stereo was My Girl, the version by Otis Redding.
It instantly became her song and every time we hear the line 'I got sunshine
on a cloudy day with my girl' we fill up.
We're very sentimental about things like that."
Maurice Jay, host of U105's breakfast show, has been married to Sam for
three years. They live in Dundonald with 14-month-old son Evan. He says:
Our eyes met across a crowded disco, but the first time I asked Sam out she
turned me down as she had a boyfriend. It was six months later that she
accepted me. U2's Beautiful Day was at number one at the time.
Mind you, when I was DJing back then I was more likely to be playing
something like Robbie William's Rock DJ or Ricky Martin's Livin' La Vida
Loca.
The first song at our wedding was supposed to be Diana Ross' When You Tell
Me That You Love Me but before our big day I mixed a load of silly songs —
things like Mr and Mrs and Love and Marriage.
Then the first dance was to the Diana Ross and a Prince track called Adore
that I had mixed together. When You Tell Me That You Love Me was her lovey
dovey track and Adore was mine, so we mixed in the middle. I thought it was
very appropriate that on our wedding day the number one was Bet You Look
Good On The Dance floor by Arctic Monkeys.
We've always had different tastes in music. I like old school funk like
Prince and a band called Parliament, or James Brown. For rock, I like the
oldies like Whitesnake. Sam's tastes are a bit more pop — she's quite chart
driven and likes The Killers and bands like that.
When Evan was born, Grace Kelly by Mika was number one. I liked that it was
so bouncy and not taking things so seriously. I remember thinking that I
hoped Evan would have similar traits. Judging by his character these days
that seems to be the case.
Music has been a huge part of my life as long as I can remember.
When I was five or six, I used to play DJ with two old Dansette record
players. I would time how long it took each record to fall down and do links
in-between them. And I've been doing that ever since."
How your song can say the sweetest things
Sometime in the middle of 1986, Paul Hewson forgot his wife Ali's birthday.
To be fair, Paul, or Bono as he is more commonly known, was in the middle of
recording an album called The Joshua Tree, which would catapult the band U2
into international critical acclaim.
To make it up to Ali, Bono wrote a song called The Sweetest Thing, and
gifted her the rights and any proceeds from the song. Although featured as a
B-side, the song wasn't released as a single until 1998, and was accompanied
by a video featuring the phrase 'I'm sorry' and various other apologies.
With its release, the whole world knew how Bono apologised for forgetting
his wife's birthday. In return, Ali has donated all proceeds from the song
to her favourite charity, Chernobyl Children's Project International.
Everyone has their own private soundtrack. Hearing a song from yesteryear
can transport a person back to their first day at school, their wedding day,
or more sombre occasions such as funerals or the end of a relationship.
Eric Clapton paid the ultimate compliment to Pattie Boyd, the then wife of
George Harrison, by writing two classic love songs about her. Layla and
Wonderful Tonight have stood the test of time since the 1970s, long after
the relationship had failed.
When singer Tom Higginson, frontman of the American band Plain White T met
steeplechase runner Delilah DiCresenzon, he tried to win her over by telling
her he'd written a song about her. When she asked him to sing it to her, he
couldn't deliver, and she headed for the hills. Thus, when Hey There Delilah
was written, Delilah was nowhere to be found.
One of the most romantic — or cheesy, depending on your point of view —
songs of all time was Chris de Burgh's Lady in Red, written for his wife
Diane. More controversially, his song Blonde Hair, Blue Jeans was said to
have been written for the family's nanny Maresa Morgan, with whom he had an
affair.
And Neil Diamond admitted he wrote Sweet Caroline for President Kennedy's
daughter Caroline.