Belfast Telegraph

Tuesday 30 September 2014

I’ve fallen for another divorcee

Fiona Caine is here to help if you have a relationship, sexual, marriage or family problem

My husband and I are going through a pretty nasty divorce — fortunately we have no children but there’s a lot of acrimony.

I’ve met a really nice guy, though, through a mutual friend and I’ve fallen for him big time. He’s also going through a divorce so we can really empathise with one another.

I fell in love with him almost immediately but he says that he is uncertain about how he feels about me.

I’ve suggested we move in together a couple of times but he just goes quiet. GD

FIONA SAYS: TAKE SOME BREATHING SPACE

If his divorce is as difficult as yours, then he may well not be ready to make any kind of commitment just yet.

To be honest, I am surprised you are so keen to immediately jump back into a relationship with another man while the acrimony persists with your husband.

Give him and yourself a bit of breathing space.

Try to relax a little and just enjoy each other’s company.

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