Belfast Telegraph

Thursday 28 August 2014

My husband is becoming obsessed with porn

Fiona Caine is here to help if you have a relationship, sexual, marriage or family problem

My husband and I used to watch soft porn films together and it was quite fun.

Recently though it seems to have become an obsession with him and it’s no longer soft porn, he watches really hardcore stuff. He stays up late at night watching it online then comes to bed exhausted.

If and when we do have sex, all he is interested in doing is trying out some of the things he’s seen and some of these are, to me anyway, revolting.

It feels as if our marriage is doomed unless we can sort this out, but he’s not interested in talking about it so I don't know what to do. JK

FIONA SAYS: TALK TO HIM ABOUT SEX ADDICTION

This is becoming an increasing problem as more and more porn is available on the internet. If your husband is becoming obsessed with watching this sort of thing there is a real risk of him becoming addicted.

If that happens he could not only lose you but also lose the capacity for having a normal sexual relationship with anyone.

If he does wake up to the reality of what he's doing then you need to work hard at bringing the joy back into your marriage.

Take a break away somewhere that's not got the access to what he's been viewing.

Start behaving like you did when you first got together; enjoying one another just like you used to.

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