Belfast Telegraph

Monday 22 December 2014

 Should I leave my married boyfriend?

Fiona Caine is here to help if you have a relationship, sexual, marriage or family problem

I’m 19 and have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly three years and no one understands how much I love him.

He is married with two children and everyone says he is no good but they’re wrong.

My sister lives in Spain and she has invited me over there for a year to help with her business.

My mum says I should go and tell my boyfriend to use the time to decide whether he wants to be with me or his wife.

I can’t bear the thought of being away from him, but at the same time I can’t go on like this for much longer. JH


Even if you and your boyfriend were free to be together and in a steady relationship, the opportunity to work in another country for a year is a wonderful one worth taking.

Although I don't doubt you love him, has he really shown he loves you?

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