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Ulster sextuplet couple ‘rejected advice to abort several foetuses’

By Claire McNeilly
Monday, 15 June 2009

 Nuala and Austin on their wedding day

Nuala and Austin on their wedding day

Ireland's first sextuplet parents have told how they rejected medical advice to abort several of the foetuses.

Last month, Nuala Conway, from Dunamore, gave birth to four girls and two boys 14 weeks prematurely.

The 26-year-old Co Tyrone woman said that 14 weeks into the multiple pregnancy, doctors warned her and husband Austin of the risks of proceeding.

However, their children — Ursula, Austin, Shannon, Karla, Eoghan and Kerrie — are now 24 days old and they are all stable in intensive care in hospital, where their parents have been keeping an almost constant vigil.

“These babies are a wonderful gift from God,” Mrs Conway told the Sunday Express newspaper in her first interview.

“Whatever God laid out for our lives we were taking it.”

The four girls and two boys — who were conceived without the aid of IVF — were delivered by a team of 38 people at the Royal Jubilee Maternity Hospital in Belfast.

They all arrived within the space of five minutes, weighing in between 1lb 7oz and 2lb 2oz.

“When I was 14 weeks pregnant doctors gave us the option of terminating some of my babies,” Mrs Conway revealed.

“They more or less advised us to. They told us about the risks we faced if we went ahead with the pregnancy.”

The former fashion store sales supervisor said, however, that it was not an option for the couple.

“Doctors gave us a couple of days to think about it, but we knew without discussion what we both wanted,” she added.

Mrs Conway, who was discharged from hospital a week ago, told the paper she had prayed for a child with her husband of three years.

They are the first sextuplets to be born in Ireland and the first in the UK for over a quarter of a century — and now their parents cannot wait to bring them home.

“I just feel lost without them. We have a house here but it feels so empty. It's not a home until all our babies are here safe and well,” Mrs Conway said.

“I'm in love with every single one of them. I fell in love when they were in the womb. When one moved they would all move and I could definitely feel 24 limbs kicking.

“Every day seems like a year. Every minute seems like an hour. I just want time to go faster so they can get home. I just want to have a cuddle with them.”

Doctors have said they hope the babies will be strong enough to go home within two months — around the time they were due to be born.

The couple kept the number of babies they were expecting a secret from all but their immediate family because they did not want Nuala to be put under any extra stress.

Mr Conway, a 36-year-old kitchen fitter, said he has suspended his job so that he can make the daily three-hour round trip to the hospital.

“It has been like a roller coaster,” he said.

“The babies have been on and off antibiotics and ventilators. They are thriving really well but it's hard to get a good day.

“There are so many of them there are always days when one or two will not be doing so well.”

Dr Clifford Maynes, a neonatal consultant at the Belfast hospital, said the birth had taken “a massive amount of planning”.

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"May the Lord make you increase, both you and your children.
May you be blessed of the Lord, Maker of heaven and earth!"
Psalms 115:14-15
Note: my best friend has 3 children ages 4 and under, and is unexpectedly expecting triplets in July or so... Take courage - you're not alone!
Best wishes, and prayers for strength, courage, and wisdom! May the blessing of Almighty God rest upon you and each one of your precious children.
From a former Belfast resident,
Ottawa, Canada

Posted by Rachelle | 27.06.09, 04:30 GMT

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May God richly reward you for choosing life! Thank you for your witness to the Sanctity of all Life!

Posted by Sharon | 26.06.09, 16:10 GMT

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It is very sad when all reports have to state that IVF was not used.Thank God for one family that believes in following his laws.As for the doctors promoting abortion-They should be ashamed.
We will pray for the family.We have 6 children and know what it is like.

Posted by Myke & Miriam | 17.06.09, 10:26 GMT

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Glad that all are well and happy in this case. Hope that the doctors will also reflect upon those who have ignored medical advice and tragically perished.

Posted by Bemused | 15.06.09, 14:47 GMT

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Best wishes to them all! They've been blessed and of course they made the right decision. I wanted children but couldnt have them but if this had happened to me I'd have been delighted too. It's so lovely to read that the mum is 'in love with every single one of them'! Heartwarming story.

Posted by Mel | 15.06.09, 13:53 GMT

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Congratulations & God bless you & your little family. It will be a busy time for you all when the babies come home, I pray for strength for you as a couple & grace for all the family. The Lord will indeed bless you for the stand you took for your babies.

Posted by Pauline | 15.06.09, 13:52 GMT

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Yeah, Orange Olly, I'm sure the doctors will be gutted, you eejit.

Posted by McD | 15.06.09, 13:02 GMT

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Fantastic story this and wish the family the very best in what will be a very noisy house! Wouldn't like to be the neighbours!

Posted by Aaron | 15.06.09, 12:03 GMT

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God bless these two wonderful people for their courage and decency. May the happy family enjoy their many blessings. And may those doctors stop to reflect when they see these babies up and running around and enjoying their precious lives.

Posted by Orange Olly | 15.06.09, 10:29 GMT

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