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Northern Ireland girls 13 times more likely than boys to call Childline about their appearance and weight

By Claire Williamson

Young girls in Northern Ireland are 13 times more likely than boys to call Childline for concerns about their appearance and weight - with one 12-year-old telling the service "she didn't like herself".

The figures released by the NSPCC reveal that among the reasons cited by the young people struggling with self-esteem issues was "body-perfect" images on TV, magazines or seen on social media.

In 2016/17 there was a total of 54 counselling sessions delivered to young people with body image issues across Northern Ireland.

Of those, 40 were with girls, three were with boys and in 11 cases the child’s gender wasn't known. 

The figures are part of the total 2,609 counselling sessions, delivered across the UK, to young people with body image problems, with 980 of these received by 12- to 15-year-old girls.

A further 120 counselling sessions were delivered to girls aged 11 and under.

A number of young people in Northern Ireland who were counselled by Childline about how they look also revealed that they were struggling with depression and eating disorders such as anorexia and bulimia.

These issues were heightened when the individual also suffered bullying at school and online - driving some victims to try and change the way they look.

“I’m feeling really sad and I don’t like myself. I keep comparing myself to pictures of people in magazines and people on TV and I wish I looked like them. I don’t want to talk to people about this because I don’t want to worry them.” One 12-year-old girl told Childline

A female teenager in the 16-18 age range said:  ”I feel so embarrassed about the way I look. I hate my body, when I’m with my friends I always feel like the fat one. I can’t dress like my friends because it makes me feel fat and ugly. I’m too embarrassed to tell anybody how I’m feeling and it’s making me really lonely.”

Mairead Monds, Childline manager for Northern Ireland, said: “Our Childline counsellors based in Belfast and Foyle talk to dozens of young people from across the UK every week about anxieties surrounding their appearance.

“And last year (2016/2017) Childline delivered 54 counselling sessions to young people from Northern Ireland on this issue.

“Young people – especially girls – are telling us that they feel extreme pressure to have the perfect body and looks which conform with people they see on social media, television and magazines. 

“Our counsellors find young people often struggle to find anything positive to say about their skills, achievements or appearance. Childline and the NSPCC are working hard to help children growing up today to overcome society’s unhealthy obsession with appearance and feel happy, secure and confident.”

Childline founder Dame Esther Rantzen added: “It’s very sad and extremely worrying that girls in particular are so unhappy with the way they look. Without the right support and a general change in attitude across society there is a real danger these issues could intensify and continue into adulthood.

“It’s important all young people realise that everyone is different and everyone has the right to grow-up slowly and be comfortable in their own skin. Childline will continue to provide vital support for young people to ensure those on a journey of self-acceptance never feel alone. “

Any adult concerned about the welfare of a child or young person can call the NSPCC helpline for free, 24/7, on 0808 800 5000.

Children can call Childline at any time on 0800 111, visit or download the ‘For Me’ app.

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