Dessie Loughery has revealed that giving away his Irish Cup winners medal to a diehard Ballymena United fan and handing over his trophies as prizes for a Special Care School’s sports day meant more to him than winning them.
oughery’s generous nature is one of his most endearing qualities.
“I haven’t a trophy in the house. I had loads of them for different things like playing in summer Cups but I gave them all to a Special Care School for their sports day and was asked to present them,” he says.
“There were little kids getting big trophies for doing different activities, like throwing a bean bag and seeing the smiles on the children’s faces will stay with me to the day I die.”
There’s emotion in his voice as he recalls the memory. Then comes another from Loughery who can recount stories as quickly as he could fly up the wing for Ballymena.
“In my Irish League career I think I won two medals, for winning division one and an Irish Cup medal from 1989 when I was sub for Ballymena in our final win over Larne and was not used. That broke my heart at the time,” declares Loughery.
“Since then though I have given my Irish Cup medal away to a diehard Ballymena fan Davy McCaig. The club means everything to him.
“I met him one day up in the stand and said ‘here’s something for you’ and I gave him my Irish Cup medal and went back down towards the pitch. He was looking at me and he came down to me and said ‘that’s your Irish Cup winners medal’ and I said ‘it’s lying in a drawer in the house so you might as well have it’.
“He has it framed up on his wall. The look on Davy’s face getting that medal meant more to me that winning it. It was the same with the kids at their sports day with the trophies.
“I have made some great friends in football. That means more to me than any medal.”